courtney.

24. North Carolina. facetious. tattood. runner. tea drinker. nascar fiend. football junkie. works in motorsports. history buff. country music listener. athlete. heart follower.

.friend. daughter. sister.HUMAN.

Love Angst Continued

“I wish the couple on the corner would just get a room.
Seems like everyone around Me’s on their honeymoon.
I’d like to take a pin to a heart-shaped balloon”
-Hunter Hayes

Hunter, YOU SPEAK MY LIFE.

I’m sure it seems that all I post these days are anti-love sentiments. It’s true. I’ve always had these feelings but now more than ever they are climaxing and I need to vent.

YOU ARE MORE THAN THE SUM OF YOUR PARTS! Meaning, there is more to you then the boy or girl you glue yourself to. Gosh, it just absolutely DUMBFOUNDS me how people become completely and totally ENGULFED in another human being once they enter into a relationship. I mean for goodness sake; it’s like people can’t FUNCTION without their significant other. It’s like each person is their own entity, they meet, they become “boyfriend and girlfriend” then they’re automatically one unit. A two for one deal. Who they were before they met each other is dead and gone. Um, you were born alone [unless you were a twin but that doesn’t even matter] and you will more than likely die on your own. Try working on not losing you. Because really, YOU is all you have.

I have vowed before and will vow until the day I expire that my friends will never NOT be an active part of my life. I will NOT be that girl that becomes a mere extension of whoever I’m dating. Because it’s crappy. And it’s all too common nowadays, to lose sight of your friends and fly solo with “the lover”

Once again, effff that.

Man, I’m not even trying to, but my “anti-relationship” sentiments grow stronger and stronger each day. Every person, be them in a relationship or not, just really highlights how you’re really better off being single.

Sorry T. Swift and Boys Like Girls, two is NOT better than one.

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